Female Ejaculation
Published November 6th, 2008
We had a house party last weekend and the topic of squirting came up. I couldn't believe how many women didn't even know that they could do it. So I thought it would be a good topic to bring up here and help some ladies out. I searched the world wide web and add some things that I know.
These are the myths about it:
1) Female ejaculation does not exist.
2) Only rare women can achieve female ejaculation.
3) Kegel exercise is the key to achieving female ejaculation.
4) Only women with prominent G-Spots can achieve female ejaculation.
5) Female ejaculation can only be achieved through G-Spot orgasms.
6) Gynecologists are educated about this issue and provide women with correct information.
7) Women can only excrete a drop or two of female ejaculate, and if it is more (especially in the amounts that some women claim 1-2 cups) then it would be urine.
8) Female ejaculation is or becomes urinary incontinence.
9) Women who have given birth are the only women capable of female ejaculation.
10) There is only one way to achieve female ejaculation.
Now for the truths:
1) Female ejaculation comes from the Skenes/Paraurethral glands (also known as the G-Spot).
2) Women do not realize that they can ejaculate because they are missing the cues of when they can do it.
3) There are specific techniques that can be taught to a woman to teach her how to do it and how to hold it if she does not wish to ejaculate.
4) Women can ejaculate without having a G-Spot orgasm and for that matter without having an orgasm at all!
5) Women can increase the amount of fluid they ejaculate by following specific steps.
6) Women can ejaculate multiple times within a short period.
7) Female ejaculation is not urine, is much like the consistency of water, is clear in color, and usually smells like nothing or has a slight sweet scent.
8) OBGYNs and other physicians often misunderstand or even misdiagnose female ejaculation.
Now I know y'all are thinking if all women can do it how come so many don’t. I’m getting there I promise. First take a look at everything to understand your body.
Where Does Female Ejaculation Come From?
Female ejaculation is a fluid that is pushed out of the urethra (pee-hole- just like urine) however, unlike urine it comes from the Paraurethral/Skenes glands (located under and making up the G-Spot) during sexual arousal.
How Is Female Ejaculate Different Than Regular Cum?
There are two types of female cum that can be excreted during sexual arousal. They are clinically termed as urethral and vaginal ejaculation fluids. The one most commonly seen in our culture is vaginal ejaculate, which lubricates the vaginal walls and oozes out during sexual arousal. You probably have noticed it is milky and ranges in its thickness and odor based on a woman’s diet, overall health and the phase she is experiencing within her menstrual cycle.
Urethral ejaculate is what we are referring to when describing female ejaculation and is less common. It is the watery ejaculate that sprays or gushes out and is the one that is generally less known about. Again, this is not because only a few, special women are capable, but rather due to lack of understanding of women's sexual health issues in this culture.
What Is In The Fluid?
Let me get the biggest myth out of the way- IT IS NOT URINE. Upon testing the liquid, scientists have found that it contains levels of glucose (sugar), and an enzyme (prostatic acid phosphatase), which is characteristic of a major component in semen. It is similar to the prostate fluid within male ejaculation but without the sperm. There are also two other substances contained in the fluid, commonly found in urine (urea and creatinine), which are found in trace amounts. It is a unique substance, and unlike the heavier and thicker fluid that you would typically see when a woman is "wet" or has had an orgasm.
How Much Ejaculate Comes Out?
Most women can gush as much as 1.5 - 2 cups of the fluid when ejaculating. However this can be affected by how hydrated a woman is, how much she pushes while ejaculating, and other factors.
Why Don't Most Women Know About It Or Do It?
Female ejaculation is not difficult; its techniques are just not known about by many. Because women typically don't know about the elusive reasons they are not doing it, they are usually sabotaging their chances for gushing female ejaculate when they are having an orgasm.
One of the main reasons that women do not know they can do it is because women will often feel like they need to urinate when they are ready to expel the ejaculate and because they think that urine will come out, which it will not, they hold back. You see the G-Spot (Skenes Glands) fill up with the female ejaculate fluid and this puts pressure on the urethra (pee-tube) thus, making it feel like she has to urinate when in actuality she could ejaculate if she simply pushed instead of holding back.
There are sure-fire methods, techniques and ways to achieve it as well as overcome inhibitors, yet the issue of holding back for fear of urinating is a big factor for many women.
Because women can gush as much as two cups of ejaculate, many people think that it must be urine. Often women who do not know what is happening (and there are many) are embarrassed, confused and find it to be of great concern. It does not help that most health practitioners are not informed about it as many women are being told they require surgery and/or psychotherapy for this normal female sexual response!
If there is one thing that I can stress, it is that female ejaculation is not only visually erotic, but it feels incredible to do it. The kind of sexual release that a woman feels from this powerful gush is like no other.
Now some women are able to squirt many different ways. Clitoral stimulation, penile penetration, anal penetration, breast sucking, even just being mental turned on by words or pics. The most effective way to achieve it is through G-spot manipulation with your hands.
So men he is what y’all are dying to know. How to make a women squirt.
Start out with some foreplay and lick her clitoris first -- get her "pumped" so to speak. Once she begins to get excited, insert two fingers inside her vagina, palms facing up. But don't stop licking her clitoris (unless, of course, you can't do two things at a time).
About an inch or two inside the vagina, you will likely hit a round ball of skin -- that's the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure; it may start to become more solid; just keep doing what you're doing.
Tip: Use your other hand to gently press down on the area between her navel and her mons pubis (her pubic mound) for increased stimulation.
If she tells you that she feels like she's about to urinate, assure her that it's near impossible for her to pee and that she should just let go. Although her instincts may be to hold back, reassure her with encouraging words like, "Oh yeah, I can't wait for you to drench my hands."
As she begins to reach orgasm and starts to ejaculate, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gushing liquid or an actual drenching spray. Both are normal and the amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a ¼ cup of liquid. Have some towels handy.
As well, after she gushes like crazy, chances are she'll want a break because her vagina might become extremely sensitive (think of the head of your penis after you ejaculate). So, don't go for a second round right away unless you get the distinct impression that she's ready to go into phase two immediately.
Achieving the almighty squirt may not be as simple as described above; it may take some experimentation, persuading and different positions. As well, you may want to try stimulating other parts of her body while you head inside.
For example, have her lie down on the bed, face up, and kneel next to her (your body should be facing her belly button). While your fingers are stimulating her G-spot, use your other hand and your mouth to manipulate her nipples.
As well, you could also opt to rotate between penile penetration and finger penetration in the doggy style position.
And, of course, there are women who can ejaculate through sex alone, so place her on a surface where her vagina easily meets your penis and penetrate her, making sure only your penis connects your bodies.
And if all else fails, you can always call on a vibrator to help your woman get in touch with her juicier side.
There's no doubt in my mind that every woman has the ability to reach incredible heights of orgasm. It's up to you to convince her to let go of her inhibitions and squirt all over you.
Ladies remember you will not pee on him! Let go and push. You won’t be disappointed!