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Swinger Terms Glossary

AC/DC     BBW     B&D or BD     BDSM     Back Door     Bi-Accepting     Bi-Curious     Bi-Sexual     DP
D&D free     Exhibitionists     Fetish     Full Swap     Gay     Girl - Girl     Group Sex     Heterosexual
Homosexual     HWP     Lesbian     MILF     Off-Premise     On-Premise     Play     Phone Sex     Public Sex
Role Playing     Sadomasochism     Safe     Sodomy     Single Female     Single Male     Soft Swap
STR or Straight     Swap or Swapping     Toy Playing     Unicorn     Vanilla     Voyeurism     Web Cam Play    
AC/DC
Means someone who is bi-sexual

BBW
Stands for Big Beautiful Woman

B&D or BD
Refers to Bondage and Discipline. Bondage is the practice of restraint, such as handcuffing or tying someone up, for the purposes of sexual arousal. Discipline is the practice of spanking or other disciplinary actions in order to arouse sexual desire.

BDSM
Stands for Bondage, discipline and Sadomasochism

Back Door
A slang term for anal sex

Bi-Accepting
Usually refers to someone who is mostly attracted to the opposite sex but comfortable to a limited extent with receiving sexual attention from the same sex. Generally speaking it refers to someone who falls somewhere between straight and bisexual and has different meanings depending on who is using it.

Bi-Curious
Means someone who is interested in trying same-sex sexual activity. Bi-curious people may suspect they are bisexual but are simply- inexperienced.

Bi-Sexual
Sexually attracted to both sexes

DP
Stands for double penetration, when one woman is penetrated by two men at the same time.

D&D free
Free from diseases and illegal drugs

Exhibitionists
People who enjoy showing off in public, either showing off their bodies or having sex in front of others.

Fetish
Sexual stimulation by non-sexual acts or objects

Full Swap
Full swap couples may have intercourse (penetration) with someone other than their own partner.

Gay
Someone who is homosexual, only attracted to the same sex, generally a male

Girl – Girl
Sexual activity between two women

Group Sex
Sex between more than two people at a time, for example an orgy

Heterosexual
Someone who is attracted only to members of the opposite sex

Homosexual
Someone who is attracted only to members of the same sex

HWP
Stands for height/weight proportionate. Means someone who is not over or underweight

Lesbian
A female who is attracted only to other females

MILF
Stands for Mother I’d Like (to) Fuck. An attractive older woman.

Off-Premise
A swing club or party where there are no locations provided for sexual activity, which is expected to take place elsewhere

On-Premise
A swing club or party which does provide locations for sexual activity to take place

Play
Euphemism for any form of sexual activity - As in "we don't play on the first date", or "we're friends with them but we don't play".

Phone Sex
An explicit, sexual phone conversation paired with masturbation. Similar to web cam play except you cannot see what the other person looks like.

Public Sex
This may refer to a place where you are being watched (see exhibitionists) but it could also be sex in a place frequented by the general non-swinging public, where you are not being observed but run the risk of being caught.

Role Playing
Sex where each partner plays out a fantasy role, like teacher/student, doctor/nurse, etc.

Sadomasochism
Sexual pleasure through the (controlled) infliction or receiving of pain

Safe
Someone who has been “fixed”, a male who has had a vasectomy or a female who has had her tubes tied. Someone who is safe is not at risk for being or causing someone else to be pregnant.

Sodomy
xUsually means anal sex

Single Female
A female who is not in a relationship

Single Male
A male who is not in a relationship

Soft Swap
Couples who are soft-swap do not have intercourse (penetration) with anyone but their own partner. Examples of soft-swap play include kissing, touching, oral sex, and girl-girl play. Every couple is different though, and doesn’t necessarily do all of these things.

STR or Straight
Someone who is heterosexual

Swap or Swapping
The exchange of partners by two couples

Toy Playing
Sex involving toys; dildos, vibrators, strap-ons, etc

Unicorn
Slang term used by some to refer to a bisexual single female swinger, for two reasons – they are so rare as to be considered a mythical creature, and if you do ever find one, no one will believe you. This is not entirely true as there are single females in the lifestyle; however, on some websites, uncertified single females are more likely to be either not really single or not really female.

Vanilla
Used to refer to anything pertaining to a non-swinging lifestyle. Non-swingers are referred to as “vanillas”. Can also be used as an adjective to describe actions or clothing (i.e. “We are trying to be discreet, so please wear vanilla clothing to the party and change once inside.”)

Voyeurism
The pleasure of watching other people engaged in sexual activity without taking part.

Web Cam Play
A lot of people who have web cameras like to set up a cam session to meet for the first time. This lets you know the other person is real without arranging a public meeting. Sex over a web camera (either masturbation or sex with your own partner while being watched) is cam play.



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